While its important to know what girls like to impress them, its even more crucial to understand what they hate for the consistency of your relationship and closeness with a girl.
Most girls are rather comfortable talking about what they like, but to talk about what they hate or are uncomfortable with is not something they easily do.
Here’s a list of a few things that your girl will probably hold back from telling you even if it makes her highly uncomfortable.
1). Another girl getting attention from you:
The moment a girl feels that another girl has access to your attention and time just as much as her, she is going to start checking her feelings for you and will gradually distant herself from you. When a girl feels that she is a priority for you and she’s got your attention like nobody else, love is just going to hit her different.
2). Making them wait:
Having to wait once in a while is obviously okay, but frequent delays and increased waiting periods gives in space for doubts. Its never a pleasant feeling to always have to wait and it makes a girl doubtful not only of the relationship but also her self-worth.
3). Cancelling Plans Last minute:
It is important to understand that even if its just a “casual meeting” for you a girl puts in loads of efforts in the preparation and dressing up for that meeting (if she has strict parents chances are she already had to come up with an elaborate lie to get permission to see you) and if you cancel on that plan last moment, all the effort becomes waste and the girl is meant to lose interest.
4). Lack of Communication:
Communication gaps and dry conversations are definitely turn offs. They make everything go south in no time. Dry conversations make lack of interest very evident (even if you don’t mean it to be that way, that is what it appears to be) and that just makes the girl lose her interest to talk to you at all
5). Staring at other girls while you are with them:
Even if you don’t realize, girls can make out when you check out other girls around them!!! It won’t matter if it is the first or the 100th date, if a girl gets a hint of this, she is going to back off. It is very unattractive and definitely not something a girl wants from a guy!!!
6). Compliments that are not actually compliments:
Compliments like “YOU DON’T NEED MAKEUP TO LOOK PRETTY” and “YOU KNOW YOU ARE ABEAUTY WITH BRAINS” is not flattering. Comments on how natural is better than makeup are unattractive because a lot of girls consider make up more than a beautifying tool, it is a way of expression for them. So, just do not try and tell them how they can be “naturally” pretty.
